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Q 897: Mashwera for marriage

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asalamu alaikum,
 
Hi im 30yrs old, severely deaf and am diabetic. As you know its hard for me to finding spouses as no one come for my hands, and my parents find it embarrassing to find spouse for me. However i decided that i should find spouse myself through matrionmoal site. I have found guy that i really like and hes very happy with me and want to get marry to me despite ma illness problem. I had ask parents about him and they diasgreed when they heard that he’s kurdistani. I dont think there is nothing wrong marry him as long he’s muslim and follow his religiously. That all matter to me even thought he dont earn well or have house etc. Surely Allah will guides us way. I need to know any dua to make my family agrees to it. I couldnt do isthikara as i dont understand it well and cdnt concentrate on it. Unless if someone can do isthikara for me, that would be great. Please gives me any advice as we both really want to get married asap and complete half deen as we both are getting old and want to settle
down and build a family in sha Allah. reply bk asap
Thanks
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Wa Alaikum Salaam,

Istikhara should be done by the person who is in need of it himself. I can make du’a for you. Try to win your parents over and think carefully before marrying someone from another culture.

May Allah choose the best for you, may Allah provide the most suitable partner for you, and May Allah make life easy for you.

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